My beautiful friend,
If today feels sparkly and sweet — amazing.
If today feels heavy, complicated, or quietly exhausting — you are still doing this season perfectly.
Christmas Eve has a funny way of stirring everything: nostalgia, grief, joy, relief, longing, hope… sometimes all before breakfast. So consider this your official permission slip to do tonight your way.
🎄 A Christmas Eve Self-Care Tradition (that doesn’t require emotional labor)
Before the night ends, try this simple ritual:
✨ Light a candle (any candle — scented, chipped, dramatic, whatever).
✨ Take one slow sip of something festive.
✨ Ask yourself: What am I releasing from this year… and what am I inviting into the next?
✨ No journaling required unless you want it. No fixing. Just noticing.
That’s it. That’s the ritual. You showed up.
🍹 A Cozy Holiday Sip (Cocktail or Mocktail)
The Gentle Glow
- Cranberry juice
- Orange juice
- A splash of ginger ale
- Fresh rosemary or orange peel
- Optional: vodka or prosecco if that’s your vibe
It’s festive, soothing, and doesn’t scream “I’m holding it together with duct tape.”
🎁 My Christmas Gift to You
As a little thank-you for being here — for reading, healing, growing, and choosing yourself — the Mind-Body Reset Mini-Guide is just $1 through Sunday.
This guide is for the women who are:
• emotionally exhausted
• healing from years of stress or narcissistic dynamics
• navigating midlife, perimenopause, and nervous system overload
• ready to feel grounded again — without toxic positivity or pressure
Think: calm, clarity, and coming home to yourself.
🔮 Coming Soon: The Midlife Magic Challenge
Right after the holidays, we’re kicking off something special…
A 7-day Midlife Magic Challenge — self-guided, cozy, empowering, and zero overwhelm.
✨ A beautiful workbook
✨ Short videos
✨ Community energy
✨ Daily prompts to help you reclaim your magic
If you’ve read Hot Flashes & Hexes, you already know Evie Quinn — the woman who discovered her power during a midlife meltdown and refused to shrink ever again.
If you haven’t? It’s free with Kindle Unlimited, and let’s just say… you might see yourself in her.
This challenge is about stepping into the new year not as a “better” version of yourself — but a truer one.
No resolutions.
No fixing.
Just remembering who the hell you are.
❤️ From My Heart to Yours
I love this community more than I can say.
I see your courage, your softness, your resilience, and your becoming.
However you’re spending tonight — loud, quiet, alone, surrounded, healing — I hope you feel wrapped in love and light.
You matter.
Your story matters.
And your magic is very much alive.
Merry Christmas Eve, my friend.
Here’s to rest, warmth, and a little sparkle — tonight and always.
With so much love,
Jessi ✨
