The Real-Life Glow-Up Edition
For women who are done playing small and ready to live life wide open.
Hey beautiful soul,
First off, I owe you an apology—and an update.
I haven’t been as present these past couple of weeks, and here’s why:
✨ Big news! I’ve been putting the finishing touches on Build Your Escape Plan—my step-by-step course to help you break free from toxic relationships, dead-end jobs, or lives that no longer fit. It’s officially LIVE and self-paced, and you can still get it for just 2 payments of $48 for a few more days. After that, the price goes up. Grab it now if you’ve been waiting for your sign—this is it. 🚪💸💥
▶️ Watch the FREE Intro Modulehere.
✨ Sacred Visibility is also available now—this one-hour webinar + workbook + ebook + bonus Summer Solstice Ritual is for anyone who wants to stop hiding and start being seen (in business, in relationships, in LIFE) without selling your soul.
Only $27—because you deserve it. Snag it here.
💔 But life also threw some heartbreak my way…
Last week, my neighbor passed away in a tragic accident. And just days later, my lifelong friend—my chosen brother—and the husband of my best friend of 40 years, died suddenly at just 52 years old. We think it was a heart attack, but we’re still waiting for answers.
It’s been a heavy, soul-shifting time.
And if I’ve learned anything, it’s this: Life is short. Dreams are urgent. Joy is necessary.
So let’s talk about how we’re going to make the second half of this year count.
🔥 YOUR MID-YEAR GLOW-UP CHECKLIST:
🌟 Affirmations to carry into June:
- I am allowed to begin again—louder, bolder, and softer all at once.
- I no longer shrink to fit in rooms I’ve outgrown.
- I am visible, valuable, and vibrantly alive.
✨ Mid-Year Radiant Goals:
- Declutter one thing a week—a drawer, a relationship, a belief.
- Move your body like it’s a celebration (not a punishment).
- Say “no” to what drains you and “hell yes” to what lights you up.
- Plan one bold thing you’ve always wanted to do but kept putting off.
Ask a Grown-Ass Woman
📭 Your safe space to ask the questions you’re afraid to Google.
Q:“Is it too late to reinvent myself? I feel like I’ve missed my window.”
A: Girl. No. It’s not too late. You’re not expired milk.
You’re not a damn avocado either—bruised by 3pm and brown by dinner.
You are aged wine, wild honey, and a sunrise that still takes people’s breath away.
Reinvention doesn’t have an expiration date—it has a permission slip. And you just signed it.
So stop waiting. You’re not late. You’re right on time.
🎁 FATHER’S DAY ON A BUDGET (BUT STILL FROM THE HEART):
Whether it's your dad, your partner, your brother, or your favorite father-figure, here are three meaningful and affordable gift ideas:
- Memory Jar – Fill it with handwritten notes, memories, and reasons you love them. (Cost: $5. Value: Priceless.)
- Grill Master Basket – Pick up some sauces, dry rubs, and reusable grill tools from Dollar Tree or Aldi and pack them in a tin bucket.
- Custom Playlist + Framed Quote – “Dad, you’re my hero” in a simple frame, and a playlist of songs that remind you of him.
🍗 SUMMER COOKOUT RECIPE:
Lemon Herb Chicken Skewers with Yogurt Dip
Ingredients:
- 1 lb boneless skinless chicken thighs, cubed
- Juice of 1 lemon + zest
- 2 tbsp olive oil
- 1 tsp garlic powder
- 1 tsp oregano
- ½ tsp salt
- Fresh parsley
Yogurt Dip:
- ½ cup plain Greek yogurt
- 1 tbsp lemon juice
- 1 clove garlic, minced
- Pinch of salt
- Chopped cucumber or dill (optional)
Instructions:
- Toss chicken with marinade ingredients. Let it sit for 30 min.
- Thread onto skewers and grill for 10–12 minutes, turning once.
- Serve with the dip and maybe a watermelon salad. 🔥
✈️ HOT EAST COAST GIRLS’ TRIPS (OR SOLO ESCAPES):
- Cape May, NJ Charming beaches, Victorian vibes, and amazing sunsets.
Stay: The Boarding House (boutique + budget-friendly) Pro Tip: Rent bikes and ride through the historic district, then grab lobster rolls on the beach.
- Asheville, NC For mountain views, hippie magic, and soul-healing hikes.
Stay: Wrong Way River Lodge – cozy A-frames on a budget. Do: Spa day at Shoji (Japanese-style hot tubs in the woods). Hike Craggy Gardens at sunrise. Chef’s kiss.
📖 MUST-READ ARTICLES:
🌱 This Is Not a Midlife Crisis, This Is a Rebirth
🔥 How to Have a Hot Girl Summer After 40
You’re not fading—you’re just getting started.
👑 FINAL WORDS FOR JUNE’S START:
You don’t have to do more.
You don’t have to hustle harder.
You just have to choose yourself—with intention, with love, and with a little sass.
This is your season to rise. Don’t wait for permission. Burn the rulebook. Unfollow the American Dream.
Build your own.
With love, fire, and zero apologies,
Jessi
